TRUSTING TENDERLY 30ML FLOWER ESSENCE | FOR FINDING TRUST AFTER TRAUMA
Flower Essence | Gentle Encouragement
Where this fits in the system:
Trusting Tenderly is the final blend in the “encouragement” series. It sits at the intersection of Carried by Grace, Opening to Hope, and I Keep Showing Up, offering encouragement that is soft, relational, and deeply attuned.
What this essence supports:
This essence supports a gentle reopening to trust, particularly after trauma, loss, or betrayal.
Energetically, it helps someone soften to the possibility that things could work out differently this time, without bypassing past pain or forcing optimism. It supports the nervous system and mental field to gradually retune toward openness, expectation, and safety.
Trusting Tenderly was originally created for someone preparing for birth after a deeply traumatic first experience. While the previous trauma hadn’t yet been fully processed, this blend supported emotional integration, eased ruminative thought patterns, and helped reset internal expectations, allowing space for excitement and a new narrative to emerge.
Practitioner observations
Although designed with a specific situation in mind, this essence may also resonate with:
Individuals trying again after devastating setbacks
Couples repairing trust after rupture
Those re-entering life, intimacy, or creation after trauma
People who have processed significant experiences and are beginning reintegration
It can act as a precursor to forward-moving blends, gently restoring the internal conditions required for effort, hope, and engagement to feel safe again.
How it’s often used:
It pairs well with supportive or stabilising essences and is particularly suited to transition periods where tenderness is required alongside courage.
How to use:
Take 4 drops in liquid or under the tongue, 2 times daily for ongoing support or as needed for active emotions.
This flower essence is prepared in a base of alcohol, as is standard with traditional flower essence preparations.
Flower essences are energetic supports and are not a substitute for medical or psychological care.
