PEACE WITH THE PAST 30ML FLOWER ESSENCE | UNRESOLVED GRIEF REMEDY
Flower Essence for deep grief, forgiveness, and long-held heart wounds
What pattern this blend supports:
Peace With The Past is designed to support the processing and gentle release of deep, long-held grief, the kind that carries weight in the heart and has often been lived with for years, sometimes lifetimes.
Unlike Held Through Tears, which supports the early stages of shock and emotional release, this blend works with grief that feels unmovable, unforgivable, or woven into identity itself. It was originally created to support the process of forgiving something that felt beyond conscious understanding, including wounds whose roots extended far deeper than the present moment.
This essence holds space for the slow, layered work of forgiveness and integration, including the kind of forgiveness reflected in the ho’oponopono prayer, not as a spiritual bypass, but as an energetic process that allows what has been carried to finally soften, reorganise, and release.
Key therapeutic observations:
People for whom this essence is recommended often carry unresolved heart wounds such as:
Lifelong parental or attachment wounds
Betrayals that fractured their sense of self
Traumas that claimed parts of their identity
Grief that feels inseparable from who they are
Emotional burdens that may not originate in this lifetime (intergenerational or past-life themes frequently appear here)
In many cases, this blend represents the deepest layer of the healing journey. It often sits quietly behind other patterns, revealed only after successive healing work creates movement elsewhere, while the core heart pain remains unchanged.
Energetically, this pattern is sometimes described as a heart wall or heart block. In practice, it often presents as what I call energetic knots, complex patterns formed as unresolved wounds accumulate and entangle over time.
Because of the depth at which this essence works, it is frequently recommended for Akashic or soul-level work, where the intention is to understand and release wounds that extend beyond conscious memory.
While deeply potent, Peace With The Past also works across multiple layers of the heart. In some cases, it may arise as an initial recommendation when a specific deep wound is ready to move. When this happens, people often report vivid dreams, symbolic imagery, or emotionally charged memories surfacing, sometimes involving long-gone relationships or scenes that feel strange but carry unmistakable meaning.
For self-guided work on older wounds, gentler essences such as Carried By Grace or Soften & Receive are often supportive starting points unless an energetic reading has identified readiness for deeper work.
Blends it’s often paired with:
Peace With The Past is rarely used in isolation from a broader healing arc. Its recommendation is usually a sign that something deep is ready to be addressed.
I often suggest working with this essence as part of a sequenced approach, beginning with softening or stabilising blends and moving toward resolution-based essences such as Opening to Hope, Trusting Tenderly, or That Was Never Me.
Because of the depth of this work, Reiki support is highly recommended. Reiki helps regulate the nervous system while working at this level, honours the emotional weight of the wounds being addressed, and supports integration so that release happens without overwhelm.
Related reflections & resources:
Releasing Ancient Wounds of Betrayal
Forgiving Our Past Selves
How to use:
Take 4 drops in liquid or under the tongue, 2 times daily for ongoing support, or as needed for active emotions.
This flower essence is prepared in a base of alcohol, as is standard with traditional flower essence preparations.
Flower essences are energetic supports and are not a substitute for medical or psychological care.
